How to Feel Comfortable With Your Body When You're Dating. That’s right: the number one buzz killer for the ladies is seeing their bodies and being dissatisfied and upset over features that are, in their own minds, less than perfect. We want you, the readers of DDHG, to sign a Perfect Body Peace Treaty. Give yourself a break from feeling you’re not sexy enough if your body is not perfect. It is not surprising that women today feel this way.

For decades now, we have grown up with images in magazines and on television and the big screen of models with perfect bodies. Photos are airbrushed to take every single imperfection out of them. How did we even come up with the words “perfect” and “imperfect” to describe our bodies? Why weren’t we raised to believe we are perfectly enough just the way we are? We are told that men don’t mind our bodies as much as we do.

They are just happy to see it! We go back to that same old buzz kill during sex, however, thinking that our butts are too big, our thighs too dimply, our stomach too big, our breasts too small. You get the point. Sign a Body Peace Treaty with us, and give it to your girlfriends and your daughters. Put it up on your fridge or your bathroom mirror. Put it on your nightstand or somewhere you can see it from the bed. Custom write your own treaty, or use ours.

I will not give in to society’s idea of what my body should look like. I will use my body in all the ways it was designed, and enjoy it thoroughly and completely. My body is the greatest gift I will ever have. My body is perfect. I am totally sexy and hot and perfect in this great body that is mine.” Sign a body peace treaty and change the way you view yourself. Your world is what you make it. Create peace with yourself in every way you can.